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A place to think and discuss

Sensitivity – It’s a Great Gift

How to learn to live with it

17th August 2016


A common line that parents throw at children is “Stop being so sensitive!” and it is one that I have definitely heard throughout my life from all angles. I’m...

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What Does the Lotus Flower Symbolise?

Thoughts on being a 'human being'

14th August 2016


If you go to Thailand, India or many Asian countries you'll see lotus flowers all over the place. They are like large water lilies but the blooms grow high...

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Child Sexual Abuse

It's Happening to One In Four

13th August 2016


In the early stages of my training as a counsellor I worked voluntarily with victims of child sexual abuse (CSA) and I’m writing this to stand beside the...

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​Self-Compassion – the Path of Patience

10th August 2016


Compassion can be defined in many ways, but it’s essence is a basic kindness, with a deep awareness of the suffering of oneself and of other living things,...

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Better Out Than In!

Thoughts on feelings...

9th August 2016


It strikes me almost every day of my working life that a lot of people are very creative in the way they avoid their feelings. We are so good at holding them...

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When Life is Overwhelming

Finding Internal and External Resources

3rd August 2016


It's been very overwhelming lately in the UK post-Brexit and also generally the news has been one thing after another all year. It's only natural and easy...

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